Forty Years of Cookware and One Empty New Kitchen
He picked up the stockpot and turned it in his hands.
Picture a woman named Opal, 67, who has rented a furnished apartment in a city in Spain. The listing photos show a kitchen with two thin pans and one knife. Her own kitchen at home holds forty years of cooking: two cast-iron skillets, a dented stockpot, a bread board with a groove worn by the knife and a drawer of wooden spoons.
Her first plan was simple. Take nothing and buy new things there. Her second plan was to pack it all in boxes and send it to a charity shop. She spread everything across the living room floor to count it, and then she sat down among it and did not get up for a while.
Her neighbor's son Luis, 26, had just rented his first apartment. Opal knew because his mother had said so over the fence, with a smile and a small worry. He had a kettle and a mattress and was cooking pasta in a saucepan borrowed from a friend.
Opal called him over. Luis stood in the doorway looking at the floor.
“Is this all going somewhere?” he asked.
“It could go to you,” Opal said.
He picked up the stockpot and turned it in his hands. Opal told him she had made soup in it the week each of her children was born. Luis asked, “Is it okay if I use it hard?”
“That is what it is for,” she said.
They sorted the floor into two piles.
| Goes with Opal | Goes to Luis |
|---|---|
| One small skillet, wrapped in a towel | The big skillet |
| Her favorite wooden spoon | The other spoons |
| Nothing else | The stockpot, the bread board, the rest |
Opal drove the box over herself on Sunday and stood at his stove while he tried the skillet. He fried onions, badly at first. The pan was heavier than he expected and the oil spat. Opal showed him how to lower the heat. He laughed, and the kitchen smelled like her old kitchen.
In Spain she bought one inexpensive pan and one good knife at a market near the apartment. She cooked her first dinner there in the skillet she had kept, with the spoon she loved.
You could…
- Lay out your cookware on the floor and sort it into keep, give and unsure.
- Think of a young person nearby who is setting up a first kitchen.
- Keep one pan and one spoon for the new place, and decide about the rest later.
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